Coaching and Mentoring for men with Problematic Sexual Behaviours with coach and mentor RICHARD

Richard uses his first-hand experience of the challenges of healing from problematic sexual behaviours, professional knowledge and skills to support men seeking sobriety, recovery, healing and freedom. On a one-to-one basis, he has helped hundreds of men and facilitated online groups and intensives.

Do you relate to any of these statements?

  • I am preoccupied with sexual thoughts

  • I have been unfaithful and betrayed my spouse or partner

  • I am controlled by my sexual desires

  • I am ashamed of my sexual behaviours

  • I keep secrets from those closest to me

  • I try to stop unwanted sexual behaviours but fail

  • I find my sexual behaviours are affecting my life, socially, financially and mentally

  • I find my sexual behaviours increasing in intensity

If the answer to some or all of the above is YES, then it’s possible you are sexually addicted

How coaching can help you?

During my coaching sessions I will:

  • Bring to our relationship my personal, professional and educational experience

  • Listen to you - not for judgment but for understanding

  • Ask questions that allow you to think in new and revealing ways

  • Motivate, encourage and support you

  • Share resources that will assist you and provide good information

  • Help you reveal, define and then focus on your true passions and dreams

Specific topics can include:

  • Understanding your problematic sexual behaviour

  • Skills and tools to help acquire and maintain sobriety

  • Producing a recovery plan

  • Dealing with inappropriate childhood behaviours e.g. ‘running away’ from anger, or harbouring resentment

  • Skills and tools to help you to support your spouse or partner in her healing from your betrayal

  • Skills and tools to help heal your relationship e.g. how to deal with your spouse’s betrayal trauma

  • Identifying and dealing with Intimacy Anorexia

  • Preparation for and conducting a therapeutic disclosure

How will we work together?

We can talk by telephone or meet online using Skype or Zoom (preferred)

Richard’s Credentials

·      Certified Professional Coach (International Coaching Federation)

·      Certified Partner Coach (Association for Partners of Sex Addiction Trauma Specialists)

·      Certified Mentor (Bravehearts University)

·      Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Practitioner

·      Post Graduate Certificate Education

·      Bachelor of Science (Hons)

·      Trained in Sex Addiction (American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy)

·      Trained in Intimacy Anorexia (American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy)

·      ERCEM (Early Recovery Couple’s Empathy Model) Trained - certification in progress

·      Level 4 Counselling Diploma - working towards

Rates and Billing

During our initial consultation, we will explore your issues and how I can use my experience and training to help you in your recovery.

During this time I will also explain my rates and billing, and my Code of Practice.

Initial Consultation

Let’s start with an initial consultation to determine your needs and for you to get to know me.

You can then determine whether a coaching relationship with me is right for you.

Make contact via the CONTACT PAGE - stating you would like RICHARD to contact you.

I looking forward to working with you.