Seeking Help - for Partners of Porn and Sex Addicts

My specialist niche as a coach and mentor is to work with women who have experienced infidelity or intimate betrayal in their lives. Typically this is partners and spouses of men who are affected by problematic sexual behavior such as addiction to pornography, love or sex. My specialist area includes not only the partner healing journey from betrayal trauma but also the support needed for partners to either rebuild life after separation or divorce and the path to relational recovery for those who choose to stay together. Coaching for individual partners is highly flexible and can be customised to meet your personal schedule and needs.

What types of things do I work on with you as my coach/mentor?

Whatever you want - Whatever you need! Our sessions can cover any topic that works for you and may include:

• Planning for physical and emotional safety

• Dealing with trauma related behaviours

• Understanding Sex Addiction and what recovery looks like

• Managing intrusive thoughts and triggers

• Creating boundaries for safety and empowerment

• Getting to the truth and learning about disclosure

• Boundaries, creating safety and finding your voice

• Dealing with separation or needing time apart

• Recognising and dealing with gaslighting and emotional abuse

• The hard but healthy choices such as "should I stay or should I go?"

• Thinking positively and practicing acceptance or how to let go

• Finding courage and vulnerability to move forward

• Rebuilding your relationship or moving on 

We can talk by telephone or meet online using Skype of Zoom.

Next Steps

If you are interested in coaching, let’s start with free phone consultation to determine your needs and for you to get to know me. You can then determine whether a coaching relationship with me is right for you.